Listening Lab—Feedback Checklist

Provide the listener with feedback that will reinforce what he or she does well and redirect the person on what he or she needs to do better.

Did the Listener…

Attend to Nonverbal behavior?

  1. Face     Smiles; friendly nodding
  2. Eyes     Direct contact; steady gaze
  3. Arms     Relaxed and open
  4. Hands     At rest; relaxed and open
  5. Legs     Uncrossed and crossed toward you
  6. Body Angle     Upright or direct toward you
  7. Tone of voice     Responded with moderate volume and rhythm

Ask questions:

Open-ended

Clarifying/checking for understanding

Prompting

Closed-end

Leading (controlling)

Reflect feelings?

How? What words were used to describe the other person’s feelings?

Paraphrase?

Where appropriate, restated the speaker’s words to demonstrate understanding

Paraphrased without personal bias

Summarize?

Provided a capsule summary in order and sequence of topic

Took notes

The listener could and/or should do less of